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TO BE HAPPY...

Why is it always me..? why isn't the fate never in my support..? I give up. yes.., we all would have at least once asked such question to ourselves. So.., analyzing the thoughts and working of mind of people these days it's provident that it's so easy to play the blame game. Yes.., the blame game, it's so easy to curse our fate, to curse all the bad things happening to us, even if it is tiny it is to be blamed.. Now a days what I feel is.., to find good in things happening around us has become a big task.. yes, we all tend to see other people's success and blame the fate for those things not happening to us. Well I guess that's normal human tendency to get allured by other people's success, to may be envy a little.. But again that's just normal right..? then, why to belong to that lot of people that come into normal category. Choose to be unique.., Choose to be the one with huge heart.., Choose to be the who can genuinely feel happy for others

MOVIE RECOMMENDATION: THE PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS...

'The Pursuit of Happyness' is a 2006 American biographical drama film directed by Gabriele Muccino starring Will Smith as Chris Gardner and Jaden Smith as Gardner's son, Christopher. The movie starts with Chris Gardner dropping his little kid Christopher to the playschool. Chris Gardner: [narrating] I met my father for the first time when I was 28 years old. I made up my mind that when I had children, my children were going to know who their father was.. Chris Gardner invests his entire life savings in portable bone density scanner which he sold for a living. Chris Gardner: This part of my life story .., this part is called riding a bus.. He was not able to sell enough scanners so as to pay the bills and the rent. The time lag between the sales and growing financial demands enrage his already bitter and alienated wife Linda, who works as hotel maid. Chris Gardner: This part of my life is called being stupid.. Trusting a hippie girl with his scanner (meanwh

LOCKDOWN LIFE

LOCKDOWN LIFE #StayHome #StaySafe #StaySane HOME Khush yaar…, you know what, tomorrow we have this seminar on Software Testing and Quality Assurance for which we are supposed to download loads of applications and what not, and, and, on the top of it, its going to be for like six long hours ( with just half an hour lunch break) can you believe it…! Firstly, the idea of working Saturday does not fit in my brain… Secondly, it’s for six long hours… No actually, five and half long hours, thirty minutes lunch break…, Khushi interjects. Well, okay, I edit. Secondly, it’s for like five and half long hours… Lastly, ‘ATTENDANCE IS COMPULSORY’, I say it with a tinge of annoyance in my voice to my dearest roomie Khushi. Wait, wait, wait, hang on there, take it easy bro…, says Khushi. Well, you are right, but I really don’t want it to happen, you know. Khush, I was actually thinking to download all the required software tomorrow morning. What say? For now, I should j

THE TWO ME: OPTIMISTIC ME... PESSIMISTIC ME...

Sometimes I actually feel as if I am being governed by 'Two Me' the Optimistic me and the Pessimistic me and you know actual conversation runs through my head between the two.. Optimistic Me: You can do it.., it's worth taking a risk.. Pessimistic Me: Oh.. no no .., do not risk it, what if it does not turn up the way you have thought it.. Optimistic Me: And what if it does turn up the way I have thought it.. Pessimistic Me: Well.., you actually need a reality check. You need to think practically dude just do not rush into it.. Optimistic Me: It's definitely worth a try.. Pessimistic Me: And what if it will only incur loss.. Optimistic Me: Um, just leave... Yes, our mind does have such conversation isn't it? Okay.., So if 'Pessimistic me' escalates up whenever we are trying to opt for a difficult path then you know what just tell 'Pessimistic me' to buzz off.. Yes we can actually shape our thoughts and shift our gears with it a

TO BE HAPPY...

GENERATION GAP...

Daddy: How was your exam dear? Me: Oh daddy, it was very chill.. (me using the word chill just left my dad in the state of ambiguity as on what context am I using that word..😂) Daddy: okay so you people say it as chill.. Me: (laughing).., daddy it was very easy.. So next day again he rings me up to ask about my next exam.. Me: hello.., daddy..!(in a very happy tone..) Daddy: umm.., it seems today too your exam was chill.. Me: haha..dad, yes.. The above slab of conversation that I had with my dad just left me into a reverie that our parents do bring in alteration in their ways to break this wall of generation gap and to ease up the equation we share with them.. Well.., here the question on which I will like to throw a light is that..,"Is it easy for them?" You know what.., It's natural human tendency to resist change.., and so is for our parents.. but still they just do to share a friendly equation with us. Yes.., deep down we all know this.., bu

SMILE...

How can we define Smile? Umm.., a state and expression of being happy… right? Okay.., so before concluding on above definition let’s just ride through different forms of it.. Well.., not necessarily all the smiling faces that we find around us are happy from within… There will be many who will just go around plastering a wide smile on their face no matter what happens.. to us they appear to be happy but we are just unaware of the battle they are fighting from within.. Yes.., I will name this smile as ‘resilient smile." As all this smile does is spread optimism. It teaches us to continue to be happy on the face of adversity. Sometimes we will just go grinning for the way our day has transpired.. it can be anything, may be a good day at college.., or a good at office or you know any special occasion .. yes, it just make us feel happy and in turn brings this wide smile on our face.. Yes.., I will name this smile as ‘Happy Smile..’ Sometimes.., w

BOOK REVIEW: A MAN CALLED OVE....

"People said Ove saw the world in black and white. But she was the colour. All the colour he had.." Above are the ending lines of chapter five. It's a story about a man who had staunch principles.., who followed stringent routine , a man who appeared to be bitter but had a soft heart beneath.., yes it's the story about 'A Man Called Ove'. People felt Ove was bitter , but he was not bitter he just did not go grinning all the time. The way he faces all the struggles in his life.., the loneliness that had crept inside him when he loses his parents.., had nobody who would love him, care for him.., he saw the world in black and white.. until Sonja plunged into his life.. yes, the love of his life and all the colour he had.. The book is the amalgamation of all the kinds of emotions. It will make you laugh..,weep a little..,and will definitely make you contemplate about this Man Called Ove.. Ove was little different and quirky , who was disliked by people..