BEING ZEELISTIC...

When it comes to LAUGHTER it takes me back to the moment wherein I , my two roommates and a dear friend of mine were just discussing something and then suddenly one of us busted out laughing and then the other person seeing it, accompanied her. Then the third one, seeing the other two laughing joined the queue. Consequently, even I busted out laughing. Yes, in short we all busted out laughing.. 😂 It just kept on increasing exponentially and had exploded to such a level that, if anyone would have passed our room at that moment, they would have invariably thought that these gaggle of giggling girls have gone insane.. We kept on Laughing .., Laughing and Laughing.. till the time we had arrived a state of breathlessness where we were hardly able to articulate our words.. Well, the other three did manage to suppress their giggle but I actually strained very hard to keep myself from laughing and eventually I used my hands to suppress it.😂 It actually felt as if we had a LAUGHTER A...

Sometimes I actually feel as if I am being governed by 'Two Me' the Optimistic me and the Pessimistic me and you know actual conversation runs through my head between the two.. Optimistic Me: You can do it.., it's worth taking a risk.. Pessimistic Me: Oh.. no no .., do not risk it, what if it does not turn up the way you have thought it.. Optimistic Me: And what if it does turn up the way I have thought it.. Pessimistic Me: Well.., you actually need a reality check. You need to think practically dude just do not rush into it.. Optimistic Me: It's definitely worth a try.. Pessimistic Me: And what if it will only incur loss.. Optimistic Me: Um, just leave... Yes, our mind does have such conversation isn't it? Okay.., So if 'Pessimistic me' escalates up whenever we are trying to opt for a difficult path then you know what just tell 'Pessimistic me' to buzz off.. Yes we can actually shape our thoughts and shift our gears with it a...

"Oh we had such a good time that day..!" "OMG I am getting late.., I just did't keep note of time. " "Please do come on time ." "That person is very much particular about time.. "                             Yes.., we use the word 'Time' so often. Well, what exactly does it mean..? So here I decide to google it and get to know it's technical meaning.. Google says.., It is a point of time as measured in hours and minutes past midnight or noon. It is the indefinite continued progress of existence and events in the past, present, and future regarded as a whole. It is plan, schedule, or arrange when (something) should happen or be done. Okay.., now let's just dive into it in our own way.., the way we look at it. [ Below is the conversation that I had with my friend. ] My Friend: So, see you tomorrow morning at 8 o’clock and yes, don’t be late. Me: Yes.., okay. See ...

[Daddy in annoyed state of mind..] Daddy: (murmuring to himself) How many times should I tell them ..(in exasperation). [him being a very calm and composed person, so showing signs of annoyance and irritability happens on very few occasions..] Me: What happened daddy you look very irritated.., take it easy .. calm down. Daddy: Listen.., I am just not in a state of mind to have any conversation. so please.. Me: Oh daddy , you know what, you should start reverse counting ... it works.., seriously it works.. Daddy: Dear I am really very irritated... Me: 100 99 98 97 96 95 94... Daddy: Listen to me.. Me: 93 92 91 90 ...umm.., 89.. daddy seriously you can join.. it does help stabilizing mind...😂 Daddy: (just trying to ignore me..) Me: 88 87 86 85 84 ... Daddy: (just bursts out laughing...) haha, you exactly know how to handle my mood ...😂 Me: Oh! you finally laughed...😂 my job is done...! When our life flashes before us there are a few moments..., a few littl...

[9:15 AM During breakfast time..in the mess.. Below was the conversation that I had with my dear friend .. So it was basically the examination time..]        Me:  I am really worried ,I don’t know how my exam is going to be.. yaar.., there is so   much tension in life.. My friend: Oh, just don’t talk about tension, tension is just raised to the power infinity...😂        Me: haha..😂 My friend: You know what , just don’t worry its going to happen the way its supposed to be so      don’t think much..        Me:  ya.., you are right.. Being an engineering student my sphere of tension revolves around submissions, practical exams.., assignments., projects.., end semesters..😂 May be for one into job or a business.., their sphere of tension revolves around getting the work done at proper time.., handling finances.., managing lows and highs of work and running ...

How can we define Smile? Umm.., a state and expression of being happy… right? Okay.., so before concluding on above definition let’s just ride through different forms of it.. Well.., not necessarily all the smiling faces that we find around us are happy from within… There will be many who will just go around plastering a wide smile on their face no matter what happens.. to us they appear to be happy but we are just unaware of the battle they are fighting from within..   Yes.., I will name this smile as ‘resilient smile." As all this smile does is spread optimism. It teaches us to continue to be happy on the face of adversity. Sometimes we will just go grinning for the way our day has transpired.. it can be anything, may be a good day at college.., or a good at office or   you know any special occasion .. yes, it just make us feel happy and in turn brings this wide smile on our face.. Yes.., I will name this smile as ‘Happy Smile..’ Sometimes....

Daddy: How was your exam dear? Me: Oh daddy, it was very chill.. (me using the word chill just left my dad in the state of ambiguity as on what context am I using that word..😂) Daddy: okay so you people say it as chill.. Me: (laughing).., daddy it was very easy.. So next day again he rings me up to ask about my next exam.. Me: hello.., daddy..!(in a very happy tone..) Daddy: umm.., it seems today too your exam was chill.. Me: haha..dad, yes.. The above slab of conversation that I had with my dad just left me into a reverie that our parents do bring in alteration in their ways to break this wall of generation gap and to ease up the equation we share with them.. Well.., here the question on which I will like to throw a light  is that..,"Is it easy for them?" You know what.., It's natural human tendency to resist change.., and so is for our parents.. but still they just do to share a friendly equation with us. Yes.., deep down we all know this.., bu...

Why is it always me..? why isn't the fate never in my support..? I give up. yes.., we all would have at least once asked such question to ourselves. So.., analyzing the thoughts and working of mind of people these days it's provident that it's  so easy to play the blame game. Yes.., the blame game, it's so easy to curse our fate, to curse all the bad things happening to us, even if it is tiny it is to be blamed.. Now a days what I feel is.., to find good in things happening around us has become a big task.. yes, we all tend to see other people's success and blame the fate for those things not happening to us. Well I guess that's normal human tendency to get allured by other people's success, to may be envy a little.. But again that's just normal right..? then, why to belong to that lot of people that come into normal category. Choose to be unique.., Choose to be the one with huge heart.., Choose to be the who can genuinely feel happy for others...